Dog and Cat Love

"I luv you."
"Cool it honey."

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Funny Animal Photos

My £5 Photobook

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Bought a 80% discount coupon for albelli photobook from groupon d(⌒o⌒)b  

So instead of the original prices of £25, I only have to pay £5! 

Huge bargain no? ♥ ( ´ ▽ ` )ノ

Here's the photo book product I received (21cm x 21cm). 

The cover looks pretty plain and simple but it's made of high-quality linen, so its good :P 

The quality of the photo printed is pretty good too. 

I get to put as much photo as I want into a total of 24 pages :) 

Except for the Japan photos, the others were all taken in 2010.

Pretty awesome yes? ( ´ ▽ ` )ノ

Super rare event - Chatted with Zai 2 times this week! ♥

Unbelievable╭(⫪∀⫪;)╮She's usually too busy with her med studies, plus our time difference are, like, freakin' HUGE!

♥ Lots of love ♥

“R” is for relationships….

I’ve always been allergic to the “R” word and I take note that it’s a very complex one to embrace, especially if you are a person like me, always galloping about and grappling with concepts, ideas and issues.

Some say I’m annoyingly free spirited, always on the move and elusive. Others may say I’m relationship phobic and have such a colourful track record in it. (So when you see a cat lady…you know where she’s coming from).

But when it comes down to it, my advice stems from the 3 Rs itself (Rules, Roles & Rituals).

1. The Rules. I know it sounds constraining, but with every solid relationship, these must be established for both individuals to feel emotional safe and secure. Both should communicate the boundaries (don’t assume and leave these unstated) and explore each other’s views in this. Think about what you need the other partner to do, or not to do to feel safe in the relationship. Questions such as, “Do you need your partner to know if he’s running late? Who pays for what bills? Etc…

2. The Roles. I think having a basic understanding of what is expected from each other is important.

3. The Rituals. This is the glue of the relationship. This includes things like goodbye kisses, the daily phone calls, the weekend hang outs, the excursions or whatever tickles your fancy. These tend to get forgotten in the tough times, or times of transition, and often, when goes undetected, erodes a relationship away.

But never be with someone just because others tell you that you both look good for each other. “Looking good” is an outward perception and means nothing. I think relationships is a fundamental learning experience and the depth of it gives us hope to delve within for further meaning in life. Relationships work when there is a “relatedness” between two people in some heartfelt way.

But hey, here’s a simplified version of how it works, not saying its easy to implement but good luck and let me hear of your advice and experience!

O_o

The US No Longer Diagnoses Narcism

The decision by the American Psychological Association to strike narcissism out as a mental disease is a mistake. Physicians in others countries continue to see it has a disorder many people suffer from. Even the lay person can identify those in society with the malady. The most blatant characteristic is an exaggerated love of self, particularly the continual preening of one's body and dress.

Just why the association has made such a drastic decision is not clear. Perhaps those in authority in the psychological body have been offended because they have been identified with the complaint. This would be a logical conclusion.

Some see those who moved West to new lives with new ways as having been unfairly marked as being narcissistic. This interpretation is quite without foundation. Rockefeller, Jefferson, Edison and even Bill Clinton have had narcissistic claims made against them. A little thought will give the reason why, but it is drawing a very long bow to say all migrants are and were narcissistic.

Underneath the self love the narcissist believes he/she is in some way unacceptable to others and must fight back. This can result in intolerance toward others to outright verbal attack.

The most common trait is a lack of empathy with others. There is a connection with autism here. Many dictators are seen as narcissistic. They rule with an iron glove and live off the fat of the land while those they rule are treated badly and starve.

The entertainment industry is rife with people who really love themselves. Pop stars have to be pulled from the stage as they return to be applauded again and again. Furthermore, there is not much doubt many movie stars are narcissistic as they bathe in public admiration.

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MAHA 2010

Hari Sabtu lepas adalah hari berpeleseran di MAHA 2010. Mula-mula pergi naik kete. Lepas belok kanan kat simpang depan sikit dari Hospital Serdang tu, terus kena brek sebabnya jalan jam. Kete sume gerak terkedek-kedek. Memang kepala masing-masing asik terjenguk keluar je. Bajet kau punye mata tu boleh nampak la sekilo meter kat depan.

Ade satu brader tu bawak kancil, tingkap die dah terbukak full. Agaknye panas melampau, die pon keluar kete kat tengah jalan tu macam nak cari gaduh. Last skali lepas jalan ke depan 3 langkah, patah balik masuk dalam kete. Ek eleh....Aku boleh jalan 10 langkah depan kau tau.

Hilang sabar, sejam berlalu, kitorang baru bergerak 50m, maka Mr. D terus buat lipatan maut untuk berpatah balik ke jalan yang benar. Sampai kat simpang tadi, rasa nak jerit kat kete Saga yang baru belok tu supaya lupakanlah niat tu.

Tapi semangat untuk pergi tu ade lagi. Balik umah parking kete kat side, start moto dan rempit. Aku dengan gembiranya melambai-lambai ala Paris Hilton ke setiap kereta. Parking pon kat entrance MAHA. Kalau naik kete, mesti parking nun jauh di sana. Nak jalan lagi 200m, sampai kat dataran tu konpem aku cari air sedap dulu. Dah la mahal. RM2 segelas plastik! Tawar plak tu!

Kat Maha tu ade macam-macam. Aku yang tak beli macam-macam. Oh btw, aku mengada-ngada buat lashes permanent perm kat situ. RM20 je untuk promosi. Kalau kat kedai RM49. Tapi akak tu bagi contact number die untuk direct buat ngan die. Boleh dapat harga kengkawan. HaHa.

Ok lah, ni aku jadi cam-whore jap. Maklum la, encik boyfriend suke tangkap gambau. I loike ;)

Paksa orang lain beri laluan. HaHa.

Muka aku sorang je boleh nampak dalam gambar. Paksa orang lain pandang belakang pulak.

Usyar belon yang mana satu sama macam muka Mr. D.. Cari-cari Otomen tak de plak. Mr. D sedih giler.

Tak caye? Tengok muka die, frust sebab Otomen kesayangan tidak dijual kerana kanak-kanak zaman sekarang dah tak percaya benda-benda karut gitu. HaHaHa.

Taraaaaa!!!! Berjaya pujuk Mr. D supaya jangan sedih lagi. Cakap kat Mr. D nanti jalan sampai atas boleh tengok kambing. Tapi lutut dah longgar pon kambingnya nggak ketemuin. Dalam TV cakap ade la ritu. Deym! Berita Perdana tipu!

Lupa plak nak update. Malam tu sebelum gerak balik, kitorang sempat tengok Ibnor Reza menyanyi dalam hujan renyai. Sanggup tunggu die nyanyi lagu Mimpi Yang Tak Sudah. Touching abis T_T

Spare parts needed.

A friend of mine once said that she has a broken heart. Her ex-boyfriend cheated her with somebody else for two years before they got caught. I can see her pain when she told me the story. Her heart was terribly broken for sure.

I asked her, how can I heal a broken heart? And she replied that a broken heart is like a broken glass. It can never be healed, even if I keep trying forever. Therefore, I came out with a conclusion that my worst mistake in life was to break somebody's heart.

And the worst broken heart belongs to the one that I love the most. I blame myself and the worst part is to carry the blame for my whole life.

So simply don't break hearts.

It's been 2 years

...Spongebob and me.. 

 Lots of love

The Balls

Jumaat lepas Mr. D join bowling tournament antara company. Aku plak on the way nak balik Perlis ari tu. Keesokan harinye, Mr. D mesej bila dah bangun tido pagi Sabtu tu. Pagi tak pagi sangat la kan. Mesejnya berbunyi:

"Morning..semlm b menang main bowling.menang kumpulan cap ayam aka kumpulan paling hampeh.hehehe.love u honey"

Ni la pingat emas 'Kumpulan Cap Ayam' yang Mr. D dapat tu. Aura-aura pingat emas tu dah ade dah. haha.

Malam kemudiannya aku on phone ngn Mr. D...

Aku : b, yang main sume brape kumpulan?

Mr. D : entah..10 ke 12 kumpulan.

Aku : ha?? 12 kumpulan...kre kumpulan b paling cap ayam??

Mr. D : eh, 10 kumpulan kot...

Aku : hahahahahaha!!!!! (gelak guling-guling)

10 or 12, it really doesn't make any difference darl...hehehe...i'm still proud of you no matter what (^^,)

the fourth

Simple anniversary celebration.... After all of these roller coaster years, I can't deny that I need you in life to be my other half and a best friend. Although sometimes I think, when you're the only one who know me the best, it's one kind of disadvantage. You know me too much so you've developed a specific method to counterattack me. Yeah...when I showed you my gorgeous pouting lips, you just turned your head straight to the front. Ok..you were driving. When I was in a bad mood and suddenly jumped into your car, you simply asked me to cut and TRIM your nails....while you were driving your car?? Huh... And that foolish me couldn't even hold a smile for another 5 minutes. Arghhh!!!! Fyi, I super doopa hate you for that. Btw, Happy super doopa 4th Anniversary!

This is Mr. Abdullah bin Zaini. Age 24 years old. Born in Lanchang on July, 4th. Been working at Tekad Communication Sdn. Bhd. Live in Seksyen 4, Bangi. Single but not available. Pets lover. His kitten just gone missing. Currently suffer a severe psychological disorder called 'missing my kitty so fucking bad'.

Please...don't make me introduce myself again. My skin tone turned to pale white pan Asian. Haha... Do not deny! That mango juice is not mine. The cafe mocha seems not a bad idea actually. Thanks to mummy's pantang-larang, I haven't got myself any cold drinks since last 2 weeks. And I realize that cold drinks are not that tempting. (am obviously drooling here) -_-

His part. Don't you notice how the thigh stands out in this photo? I really want to admit that it was an excellent photography technique. Quarter meal with original roasted chicken thigh, macaroni, potato salad and aromatic rice. Now they were already gone =) He's a man with big appetite. See his girlfriend la..hohoho..

Finally, my part. I swore that I would never come to Kenny Rogers again. But most of the time when I think that I'm hungry, I want that Rogers. Well, the fact that 'makan bila lapar, berhenti sebelum kenyang' does nothing on me and causes this boroys. For the first time, I've finished the meal peacefully. Haha.. Maybe this time I wasn't that tak teradap. I am now in fact a gadis melayu terakhir (^^,)

Walaupun suku ayam telah ditelan tadi, tapi sekarang dah lapar la. Haishhh.. Ouh, ayg ada roti bilis b kasi. Sebelum makan, nak ucap untuk kali yang ke 99, Selamat Ulangtahun Yang Ke 4. Haha...tipu, ayg memang dah ada roti tu kat tangan. kikiki =)

Let me tell you a story..

When my family were away to study in uk at my very young age,

my grandparents took care of me in Brunei. 

As a result, I got really attached to my mum's side of the family and kept on staying over at their place in Jerudong.  

 I used to follow my grandparents everywhere and listened to their stories. 

My grandfather had a lot of things to tell about his life. They were always so interesting.  I especially love listening to his childhood stories, life was really hard during his time. 

Back then, my world seemed to be timeless. 

At times I would spent all day sitting on my grandparent's verandah.. 

and stare into the distant field. 

And then I started to daydream....

that I would be there, walking through that long grass field.

Then I saw a boy.

It was my grandfather, as a child. 

  I went back in time...

And so I approached him.

We became best of friends. 

I showed him the latest gadgets I had, and he was so amazed. 

That time there were no such things.   

At the end of the day, I told him that, 

"Im actually your granddaughter who came from the future!

One day you will become an amazing grandfather!"

I don't remember what was his reaction. 

But one thing for sure, I knew it was something I longed for. 

I loved my grandfather so much to the point I wished we were the same age.

I would imagine about our meeting over and over again. 

Til now...

Everytime I look at the distant field, I would still remember.

..as if it really happened in the past. 

My grandfather, Haji Noorkhan... 

passed away yesterday morning.

I am devastated cause I am here in Aberdeen :'( But it is his time to go.

Semoga Allah mencucuri rahmat keatas roh Nini. Amin. 

I looked into the sky and remember all the great memories..

Funny enough, the grass field was the first thing that popped up in my mind.

I love you always Nini Jerudong. 

Yes, I do

I don't care what others would say. But I miss you so much even we've just met 4 hours ago. What do I love about you?? Everything darling...

I love your eyes

I love your nose

I love your hair

I love your smile

I love your laugh

I love your scent

I love your innocent face when I told you to go to ladies room.

I love your confuse look when you forgot if you've lock the car.

I love your expression when you realized that you've order the wrong claypot rice.

I love your passion when you touched a gadget although I'm a butech.

As we are in the car, when you put your left hand upside down on your thigh, I know that I can always count on you and I love you no matter what.

Hanya Kerana Cinta

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Keadaan kita memang sukar

Bukan kerna cinta yang menghalang

Walaupun terpaksa kita terpisah

Namun hanya untuk seketika saja

Tak pernah lepas dari cobaan

Dalam perjalanan percintaan

Tapi ku relakan cintaku untuk mu

Yakin pada tulusnya kasihmu

Hanya kerana cinta ku melangkah jauh

Sanggup menyepi mencari ilham ku

Tak ada yang lebih dari itu

Hanya kerana cinta ku bersujud pasrah

Mengharapkan belas maaf dari mu

Tak ada yang lebih

Tak ada yang lebih dari itu

Bawalah aku ke dalam mimpi mu

Agar ku dapat bersama mu

Walaupun hanya sementara

Sentuhanmu indah

True Love

True Love

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Zaimah

To my very best friend, I wish I am there in New Zealand to celebrate your birthday!

Zaimah and I were friends since year1 high school (age 10,11?), I can still remember the birthdays we celebrated some of the years together. The big/small parties, the surprises, the friends, the gifts.. no matter what we were always stuck together.

Im glad the sweetest person alive is mine.

We loved to talk our dreams and ambition eversince we were kids. While my ambition changed every year as we grew up, Zaimah's dream remained the same. 

Ambition: Doctor 

We had totally different personalities - Zaimah always worked hard with her studies, and as for me, I was a lazy bum. I know I wouldn't reach this stage if it is not because of her. I tried to keep up just so that we could always be together. 

Now she is in her 4th year as the Medicinal student in NZ. Zai never gives up, she always tried her best to achieve her dreams. Its hard being far apart from each other, it really is. I still daydream how nice it'd be if we study in the same university. 

Ahhh~  missing those days.

I love you Zai! :)

Goodbye Totoro.. T_T

Everything was decided in one day all of the sudden . 

My flatmate Sa, has always been allergic to animals, yet she let Totoro stayed in our place for a while before summer holiday. Her allergy was getting worst day by day to the point her nose started to bleed.

I had to take Totoro away as soon as possible. Unfortunately no one is free at this time, there's only 1 choice left. 

Animal adoption.  

Then again, I was planning to give him away this summer anyway~ (Because last summer cost me 400pounds already. Im just a student!).
Plus my parents never like the idea of me keeping an animal in my room, its not healthy. They're right. 

Its just a lil bit too early, Im just not ready to let him go. 

But I have to, letting go is a part of life I need to face. 

About my guinea pig,

I bought him at Aberdeen's 'Pets at Home' February last year. (Link1) (Link2)

He was so tiny and he had this cute mohawk hair :)

He grew a lot eversince.

And look at him now. 

A giant black bushy creature.

Its time to lets him go....

I gave him back to the place where I found him.

Good thing they have an adoption centre in Aberdeen.

Filling a form with detailed information about Totoro.

'Reason: Owner's allergy (?)'

'About me: No hugs, just talk'

'Loves: Parsley and Yogurt drops'

'Hates: Being hold on to'

Totoro loves to play around my room whenever he wanted.

 He's usually very noisy - asking for food, sings along everytime i sang~ and he talks back everytime I talked to him. 

But i am not allowed to pick him up! (only by force)

But he loves face massages lol. :P 

 Peter, thank you for helping me out sending Totoro at the very last minute ;)

Be a good boy Totoro...

Hopefully you'll get a new lovable owner who loves to talk a lot like you do.

Im missing you 

Love Bento

Valentines yesterday.
I made a special valentine-theme bento for Jeri this year.
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Thought it would be nice since he loves food so much haha.

It been a very long time since I decorated a bento lunch.
So what do you think? ^^

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Please note that im only doing this to be fair and for fun. I don't really celebrate
Just so you know.
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I was amazed when I found heart-shaped silicon cups being sold in Mark&Spencer! The price was very reasonable :) With this, i can add in a various kinds of food together regardless the combination.
Ah such lovely compartments. ^^Sure it took time and effort, but it was good fun. :)
Best part, Jeri was impressed! Woot!

Yay, this is the best bento i've ever made so far!
Love the heart-shaped jelly beans.
Bought it from Mark&Spences as well.
This is what I get from Jeri :)
A rose! Wah wah, my very 1st rose!
Cystal on top lagi tu XD So sakai!

Love it!

For those who celebrated it, hope you all have enjoyed your special weekend,
and.. a very Happy Chinese New Year! :)